Is there Justice in Life? Is life Fair?

“Damien, I want to ask you a few questions, is there Justice in Life? Is life Fair? Because atheistic mindset makes life sounds as if there is no justice in it?” – Questioner   My response, we can make Justice in life as Justice involves fair, caring or respectful behaviors etc. there is no karma nor any supernatural anything working on our behalf if that is what you are asking.   “Damien, I’m just saying that if that’s the case, then theistic mindset could offer more satisfaction in life.” – Questioner   My response, it is the case and magic beliefs of any kind can add to how things feel and so to does denialism and romanticism or idealism where no gOD is required. But that is meaningless as lies are still lies, saying lies feel good; does not change the fact they are lies.   “Damien, I’m a deist… But if I gave you the theistic view, this God wouldn’t force people into joining his side..” – Questioner   My response, if your beloved god does not add or insure Justice in this life it is doing nothing, nothing more than a godless universe and that is all you can know. Saying that there is anything else is making stuff up that you not only don’t know you have no way of knowing.   “Damien, well I don’t see that atheism is bringing any justice either.. Enlighten me if I’m wrong..” – Questioner   My response, atheism is not claiming to but it’s a conclusion that Theism and it’s baseless arguments fail so it’s not trying to. People...

Antireligionist Atheism

Antireligionist atheism: is opposition to any religion, religious beliefs, religious institutions, and god myths. Antireligion is distinct from atheism and antitheism (opposition to belief in deities), although antireligionists may be atheists or antitheists. The term may be used to describe opposition to mostly organized religions, or can describe a broader opposition to any form of belief in the supernatural, holy, godly or divine. An antireligionist generally means an opposition to religion, this most likely includes buddhism, satanism, taoism, paganism, wicca, spiritualism, etc. reject it all, every religion or pseudo religion, YES an atheist who is “Anti” ALL RELIGIONS. Not just atheist or antitheist, I am a proud anti-religionist. I can sum up what I do not like about religion in one idea, religions as a group are “Conspiracy Theories of Reality,” usually filled with Pseudoscience, Pseudohistory, along with Pseudomorality and other harmful aspects to people as well as reality and not just ancient mythology to be marveled and laughed at. And, I am an anti-accommodationist too. The term may be used to describe opposition to organized religion, or to describe a broader opposition to any form of belief in the supernatural or the divine. Antireligion is distinct from atheism (the absence of a belief in deities) and antitheism (an opposition to belief in deities), although antireligionists may be atheists or antitheists. I can sum up what I do not like about religion in one idea, religions as a group are “Conspiracy Theories of Reality,” usually filled with Pseudoscience, Pseudohistory, along with Pseudomorality and other harmful aspects to people as well as reality and not just ancient mythology to be marveled and laughed at....

Social intelligence (SI) = “tact,” “common sense,” or “street smarts”

What Is Social Intelligence? Why Does It Matter? Social intelligence is the key to career and life success. Do you have it? Posted Jul 01, 2014 by Ronald E Riggio Ph.D.Cutting-Edge Leadership Intelligence, or IQ, is largely what you are born with. Genetics play a large part. Social intelligence (SI), on the other hand, is mostly learned. SI develops from experience with people and learning from success and failures in social settings. It is more commonly referred to as “tact,” “common sense,” or “street smarts.” What are the key elements of social intelligence? 1. Verbal Fluency and Conversational Skills. You can easily spot someone with lots of SI at a party or social gathering because he or she knows how to “work the room.” The highly socially intelligent person can carry on conversations with a wide variety of people, and is tactful and appropriate in what is said. Combined, these represent what are called “social expressiveness skills.” 2. Knowledge of Social Roles, Rules, and Scripts. Socially intelligent individuals learn how to play various social roles. They are also well versed in the informal rules, or “norms,” that govern social interaction. In other words, they “know how to play the game” of social interaction. As a result, they come off as socially sophisticated and wise. 3. Effective Listening Skills. Socially intelligent persons are great listeners. As a result, others come away from an interaction with an SI person feeling as if they had a good “connection” with him or her. 4. Understanding What Makes Other People Tick. Great people watchers, individuals high in social intelligence attune themselves to what others are...

Kindly do the Needful

Do the needful. Help the needy, simply do all the good you can do in this life as there is no second chance. In this life you only have now to get it right. So be hopeful, be helpful, and be free; do the needful. “”Do the needful” is an expression which means “do that which is needed”, with the respectful implication that the other party is trusted to understand what needs doing without being given detailed instruction.” Ref I am proud of a lot of achievements in my life but most of all of my acts of kindness and care. I realize that the wisest thing I have ever done was be kind. That said it is often a feat of bravery in a too often harsh and careless world. I feel for and am proud of all who are kind and care. Kindness is hard sometimes but it is never a waste, as it strengths humanity as a whole even if it seems squandered on some of its parts. Kindness has a universal value even if it can be often a trying or tiring endeavor at times it makes a better world. To be a champion of kindness with all the trying things or people in life can be quite heard at times. But the task of kindness is often self rewarding in how it is life enriching to others around you. Such recipients of acts of kindness are often motivated to themselves do similar acts of kindness, which can lessen the reaction to the noise of all the trying things or people in life. What if kindness...

Don’t try to Help People, make them do all the thinking for themselves?

“Damien Marie AtHope, Tell your contacts to get off Marcus Arurealius’ dick and think for themselves.” – Challenger   My response, I enjoy helping others.   “Any moment not spent improving your life is a waste of it. You cannot change others, Damien; you can only change yourself. If we were all simply focused on being our highest possible selves than the world would become a better place by proxy.” – Challenger   My response, Helping change other to the positive is a demonstration that I have already had some self improvement and I am doing what is needed to keep improving. And here you are violating your own thinking trying to do what? Change my thinking with your statement? We change people all the time it’s quite common in social animals. If one believes in reality which you say you don’t and it’s because you were influenced by someone to believe that right so it worked this change people thing. And counselling helps people change all the time so you need a updated Belief as your current one is in error.   Behavior Modification Methods: Positive vs. Negative: http://damienmarieathope.com/2015/10/25/behavior-modification-methods-positive-vs-negative/   You can’t change people, by reason and evidence. WRONG, I do it all the time:...