Is god choiceless or standardless or removed from ethics?

Is god choiceless or standardless or removed from ethics? Let’s say gods are real and if they could interact with us be thought to have a conciseness thus be held to an ethical slandered? Is not a choice or thought not a rational requirement to have ethical understanding in the real world thus a rock cannot make an ethical choice nor can a baby but an adult or god could as well as purposed right? If believed prayers of millions of abused children can’t get answered why not a hold them to an ethical slandered just as a person who could stop a child’s suffering? Is it not the “body of matter” (human and not a god) but the ethical understanding, because of a rational conciseness that we hold responsible in the first place? We need more then theories we must obtain freedom or ethics you can feel. We must have a rational ethical understanding in the real world. Can you hold a rock responsible for crushing pain than death? Seemingly, the Ethics of religion found in books like the bible range from reasonable to psychotically barbaric and unethical. So they simply need to be rejected, due to their unethical support for harm, no it’s not even ok if its ones claimed to a god. No, such untrustable unethical sources just will not do, if a god is the creator of such unethical instructions in said holy books, then this god is clearly unethical and as it would be this same god that had decided to created the sensation of pain and pain is not ethical to inflict on others,...